What’s wrong with you ? people and thoughts

Should we be really positive in life?

Lemme confront that these are my thoughts, might not necessarily right but worth thinking about…

I was out for some work and I see a man selling vegetables, shouting loudly .. Rs.30 for a kilo, Rs.30 for a kilo.

Another person stops by and asks for vegetable for Rs.20 a kilo and the person denies selling it for Rs.20…He asked for Rs.25. The other person did not buy it for Rs.25 and went away …

and you know what? he was the same person who bought same thing from the same person last time for Rs. 24.

I saw it and a train of thoughts started within…

It was so strange for me that wanting positive experience in itself is a negative experience.

Accepting negative experience is a positive experience…

The same person who was positive last time to buy it for Rs.24 wanted the same thing from same person for Rs.20 this time !!!

The idea that more you pursue feeling better all the time less satisfied you become.

lemme give you an example …

The more you desperately want to be rich the more poor and less worthy you feel, regardless of how much money you actually make.

The more you desperately you want to be happy and loved, the lonelier you become, regardless of how much your loved ones love you…

You will never be happy if you continue searching for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you keep looking for meaning of life.

or put more simply … DON’T TRY.

and you will ask … what the heck? Don’t try?

then what about the house at the lake that I have been dreaming of? what about me dreaming of being an actress?

I understand.. but I do know that if you start giving f**k about those things, you will not achieve anything !!! Instead you start working on it today .. may be smaller steps today and gradually having bigger ones …

I’m so glad you asked …

Ever noticed the time when you care less about something, you do better at it ?

How many people should I show you that are not doing the job that the degree they have …

Ever noticed when you stop giving a f**k about things, how things start falling into place?

This is called ‘backward law’. Not giving a f**k works in reverse. Pursuing positive is a negative, pursuing the negative is positive.

Seriously, I could keep going..but you get the point …

Avoidance of struggle is a struggle. Avoidance of suffering is a suffering …

Any attempt to escape the negative only backfires…

If you don’t give a f**k about the pain, you become unstoppable. ..

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look, this is how it works …

it’s obvious that you’re gonna die one day ( just to remind you incase you forgot), everyone you know would be dead soon and with this limited time you have, you have limited things to give an importance to … very few infact.

If you go around thinking about everything, everyone, well… you will be disappointed…

not giving a f**k is an art ..there’s isn’t everything to neglect about but it’s about learning to know what’s important and what’s not …

and mind you, not giving a f**k does not mean being indifferent. it means being comfortable for whatever situation comes along.

I’m sure today we have this psychological imbalance in people that no longer realize that its okay for things to suck sometimes. On surface it looks simple but I promise its a major issue…

because when we believe that its not okay for things to suck sometimes then we unconsciously start blaming ourselves …

My idea of not giving a f**k about things is a simple way of reorienting our expectations for life … simple as that !!! choosing what is important and what is not …

because you should accept that no matter what, life is gonna throw some shit at you and once you become familiar with all of it, trust me, you become invincible.

after-all the only solution to overcome pain is to learn to bear with it at first place…

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Remember: Yes youuuu … remember ..

that “The greatest truths in life are always unpleasant to hear”…

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