कारण तू घरी असतेस

karan tu ghari astes people and thoughts
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अगं ऐकलंस का…….?
आज बंटीची बस येणार नाहीए.
मला वेळ नाही.
त्याला शाळेतुन तुच आण.
*कारण तु घरीच असते…..*🙄
अगं माझा मोबाईल चार्जर सापडत नाही,
battery low आहे,
तुझा फोन नंतर लाव.
तुझा चार्जर मला दे.
*कारण तु घरीच असते……*🙄
आज मला लवकर office ला जायचे आहे ,
आधी पेपर मला दे.
तु नंतर कधीही वाच.
*कारण तु घरीच असते…..*🙄
बंटी-पिंकीची अंघोळ,
त्याचा डबा, माझा नाश्ता,
तयारी आधी करत जा.
तुझी घाई मधेच कशाला?
*कारण तु घरीच असते …..*🙄
office मधे work load आहे.
👩🏻 ए आई, remote दे.
मला TV बघायचा आहे.
नंतर मला class आहे.
तु नंतर बघ ना ,तुझी serial repeat.
*कारण तु घरीच असते …..*🙄
आज colleague बरोबर
बाहेर जातोए जेवायला.
मुलांना तुच garden मध्ये घेउन जा .👩👧👦
*कारण तु घरीच असते …..*🙄
पुण्याचे मामा-मामी येताएत लग्नाला.
मी तर office मध्ये असतो, पण त्यांना म्हटलं उतरा आमच्या कडे.
*कारण तु घरीच असते ….*🙄
अग ऐकलंस का ?
खुप दमुन आलोय.
एक कडक चहा ☕दे आणि
जेवायलाही लवकरच वाढ. होईल न स्वयंपाक पटकन ?
*कारण तु घरीच तर असते….*😟
घराबाहेर पडणाऱ्यांची 👨💼
प्रत्येक गोष्ट प्रथम महत्त्वाची.
‘ति’च्या प्रत्येक इच्छेला,
प्रत्येक  आवडीनिवडीला दुय्यम स्थान !!
*कारण ‘ती’ घरीच असते.*😳
खरंच का एवढ सोप्प आहे ?
*घरी राहणं 😟 ??????*
*स्रियांचा सन्मान करायला शिका….करण 👸🏼
‘ती’ घरी असते ‘म्हणून घर घर असते🤷🏼‍♀*💝💖🌹💐👫
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Here’s how the poem above could be summarized.
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“Choices of mom/women in the house has always been secondary. Everyone makes her choices secondary by saying that she can do <some> work later because she is at home.
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At the end author says, “Respect woman”. Don’t make her choices secondary ” . 
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I agree ! Yeah, I do..
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but here’s the point.
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I haven’t ever understood why we men have always been under estimated for our respect about women?
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I don’t understand in the poem above that why author does want to make it feel emotional by showing that saying “You are at home, do <some work > later, let me do it first” is just a hate of women?
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Why is it so? Don’t you say it ever to us ?
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Let’s be practical.. Do you ever know how much your husband, your son loves you ?
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Have you always been experiencing that?
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Yes! right ?
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Can you women think for a while , what would you have said if you would be in the same position as in every paragraph in this poem?
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Of course you would also have said the same answer. Isn’t it ?
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It’s natural to say that, “I’m little bit in more hurry, you please do <your work> later, let me do it first.”. What’s wrong in it ? I don’t understand.
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 I’m not taking this as a debate and I’m never oppose of giving respect. Of course you deserve that being one of the most perfect things  in the world..
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What I’m against at is this mentality of women that we men always hate them or disrespect them. All our talks or little sentences are always misunderstood..It’s never like that…
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I agree that there are few devils between us, but that doesn’t make everyone of our rests devils.
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All we remaining after filtering devils between us …We care about you !
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Stop feeling like this with out small sentences. We never mean then the way you take it.
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We just say so because we me care about you … and you blaming us, do heart us as it hurts you !!!!
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