कारण तू घरी असतेस

karan tu ghari astes people and thoughts
अगं ऐकलंस का…….?
आज बंटीची बस येणार नाहीए.
मला वेळ नाही.
त्याला शाळेतुन तुच आण.
*कारण तु घरीच असते…..*🙄
अगं माझा मोबाईल चार्जर सापडत नाही,
battery low आहे,
तुझा फोन नंतर लाव.
तुझा चार्जर मला दे.
*कारण तु घरीच असते……*🙄
आज मला लवकर office ला जायचे आहे ,
आधी पेपर मला दे.
तु नंतर कधीही वाच.
*कारण तु घरीच असते…..*🙄
बंटी-पिंकीची अंघोळ,
त्याचा डबा, माझा नाश्ता,
तयारी आधी करत जा.
तुझी घाई मधेच कशाला?
*कारण तु घरीच असते …..*🙄
office मधे work load आहे.
👩🏻 ए आई, remote दे.
मला TV बघायचा आहे.
नंतर मला class आहे.
तु नंतर बघ ना ,तुझी serial repeat.
*कारण तु घरीच असते …..*🙄
आज colleague बरोबर
बाहेर जातोए जेवायला.
मुलांना तुच garden मध्ये घेउन जा .👩👧👦
*कारण तु घरीच असते …..*🙄
पुण्याचे मामा-मामी येताएत लग्नाला.
मी तर office मध्ये असतो, पण त्यांना म्हटलं उतरा आमच्या कडे.
*कारण तु घरीच असते ….*🙄
अग ऐकलंस का ?
खुप दमुन आलोय.
एक कडक चहा ☕दे आणि
जेवायलाही लवकरच वाढ. होईल न स्वयंपाक पटकन ?
*कारण तु घरीच तर असते….*😟
घराबाहेर पडणाऱ्यांची 👨💼
प्रत्येक गोष्ट प्रथम महत्त्वाची.
‘ति’च्या प्रत्येक इच्छेला,
प्रत्येक  आवडीनिवडीला दुय्यम स्थान !!
*कारण ‘ती’ घरीच असते.*😳
खरंच का एवढ सोप्प आहे ?
*घरी राहणं 😟 ??????*
*स्रियांचा सन्मान करायला शिका….करण 👸🏼
‘ती’ घरी असते ‘म्हणून घर घर असते🤷🏼‍♀*💝💖🌹💐👫
Here’s how the poem above could be summarized.
“Choices of mom/women in the house has always been secondary. Everyone makes her choices secondary by saying that she can do <some> work later because she is at home.
At the end author says, “Respect woman”. Don’t make her choices secondary ” . 
I agree ! Yeah, I do..
but here’s the point.
I haven’t ever understood why we men have always been under estimated for our respect about women?
I don’t understand in the poem above that why author does want to make it feel emotional by showing that saying “You are at home, do <some work > later, let me do it first” is just a hate of women?
Why is it so? Don’t you say it ever to us ?
Let’s be practical.. Do you ever know how much your husband, your son loves you ?
Have you always been experiencing that?
Yes! right ?
Can you women think for a while , what would you have said if you would be in the same position as in every paragraph in this poem?
Of course you would also have said the same answer. Isn’t it ?
It’s natural to say that, “I’m little bit in more hurry, you please do <your work> later, let me do it first.”. What’s wrong in it ? I don’t understand.
 I’m not taking this as a debate and I’m never oppose of giving respect. Of course you deserve that being one of the most perfect things  in the world..
What I’m against at is this mentality of women that we men always hate them or disrespect them. All our talks or little sentences are always misunderstood..It’s never like that…
I agree that there are few devils between us, but that doesn’t make everyone of our rests devils.
All we remaining after filtering devils between us …We care about you !
Stop feeling like this with out small sentences. We never mean then the way you take it.
We just say so because we me care about you … and you blaming us, do heart us as it hurts you !!!!

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