Fear of loss…

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Have you ever had that feeling of losing your loved ones?

Your daughter goes to some function, saying Good bye to you and although she says good bye, you still care a lot about her thinking of 100 different things…

Will she be okay? Will she become late? Will she eat enough in the lunch? May be in the dinner?

You know for sure that she is going to be fine and you don’t ever want to be a reason for her restrictions, you know everything is well but still that fear pinches you somewhere in the mind …

She calls you in between asking you about yourselves, telling that she has reached properly…and you still has just all those thoughts of her? You don’t like to do anything for the whole day, you neither could sleep nor even could touch your laptop in order to work…because you care…Because somewhere you have that fear of losing her in the middle…

Sometimes when I experience such things in real life, I realize how our parents would be living while we remain in hostels calling every single day at home …

This fear of losing your loved ones is just the most powerful fear ever. Because you know that particular person matters so much in your life and you really could not live without him/her.

The other aspect of having it seems really mad but I know someday everyone experiences this …the other aspect is this fear occurs because you know your daughter is not mature enough, she is still that tiny little daddy’s girl and she could listen to anybody on the road, she could be easily influenced and mainly, the thought that originates this aspect is that no dad wants his daughter loving someone else…

Again seems odd but isn’t that true? Daddy’s or men for that matter never like when their girl explains how cool, intelligent the other guy was. Because that, that just gives rise to that fear that you might lose your importance in her life…every dad knows that she being his daughter, you are the most important person in her life as you have always been but you know, it’s natural…which you are afraid of …

And when all these thoughts unite, you just wait for your daughter to come home safe, you ask her 100 times if she had a good lunch, dinner, you ping her 100 times just to ensure that she is good, you don’t like to watch movie at home, you don’t like to talk to anyone till you see her coming home properly…

And that’s what is interesting to me …The fear of losing your loved ones…because it doesn’t happen with everyone, it happens with those, whose absence in your world matters to you, you can’t afford to lose them from your life…

Anyways, Leave! Go…Have a lunch, dinner…may be someone would be waiting for you …

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