Don’t make people comfortable enough in life…

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I was going through my Facebook timeline and read this quote which made me to really think on this …

“Never make people so comfortable in life that one day they cheat you and leave comfortably…”

read it once more slowly…

You know, you should deeply understand and convince yourself that no one in this world is designed to keep you happy and to be there for you for the whole of your life. Don’t expect this …

People are there for the same. They come in your life for some days, they teach you at times and go away…

“Never make people so comfortable in life !!! ” . This thing don’t have any meaning to me. I don’t behave  thinking of people. I remain the way i am as long as its not bad..if they like me, they remain ..otherwise they leave and its okay !!!

I understand that there are few people in your life whom you never want to leave but someday, its gonna happen…If you know this ….why do you expect them to be there?

And yah , if they cheat you and they leave, you already don’t expect from them so has no effect on you …then what do you care about this quote so much ???

If they can leave you and cheat you,  already proves that your relation with them has no meaning to them…

Looks like I have this ego thing in between but no …its the fact. you need to accept this …

When you are important to another person, they will always find the way to make time for you..no excuses, no lies…

Although you won’t make them comfortable enough to leave you or cheat you , they won’t do that but it doesn’t at all mean that they will still be best with you ..its will just be a forced relationship ..

its more like a thief living in your own home who wants to steal but he  don’t steal anything because you have gun at your home…

I don’t think “Never make people so comfortable in life that one day they cheat you and leave you comfortably” has any meaning …

I personally don’t care what people think of me at my back. If they want to be there with me, they will…

if they don’t like me or wanna leave me for some reason, they are always allowed..I don’t expect anything from anyone…no matter how close a person is to me.

The only thing I care about is to be best with people and love, care the ones that are close to me.That’s it.

I would like to redefine this quote in more meaningful way as “People aren’t always going to be there for you, that’s why you should learn to handle things on your own”.

 

 

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